Personal and professional retreats with 4D- Systemtherapy® & coaching

Your personal blueprint of stories is as specific as your fingerprint

Our five-day personal or professional retreat for creative, engaged and enterprising people helps you live authentically and break old patterns

Having one-on-one senior 4D-System Coaching®, in a personal or professional retreat permanently balances your lifestyle, work and personal life.

Because as a creative, active and engaged person, you are part of a beautiful albeit complicated world and it is often difficult to live your authenticity.

So how would it feel to spend a few days away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life in a 5-day retreat to receive exclusive attention to the problems and issues that concern you?

Supported with tailor-made 4D-System Coaching® from senior experts in very quickly identifying the deeper cause of complex problems and providing the appropriate solution.

So that you are able achieve more in a short time than you imagined possible, including where previous therapy or coaching did not offer you enough results.

Our five-day personal or professional retreat is guaranteed to give you deep insights and immediately applicable tools, helping you to live authentically and break obstructive patterns. 

We offer a 4-D-Systemic® complete concept for enduring results.

At our own rural and inspiring location, we combine senior 4D-Systeem coaching® en therapie, for the quiet and exploratory space of a five-day personal or professional retreat.

We quickly touch the essence of your problem or goal.

You will start to notice the personal and unique blueprint of the patterns that are hindering you and experience how to release the energy stuck in them in alignment with your authentic goals and inspiration.

Again moving ahead by briefly standing still.

After the Personal or Professional Retreat, you can count on our aftercare support as well.

Therefore, we schedule a couple of follow-ups by phone so that your improvements are firmly integrated and your process is supported in your daily activities.

By recognising and breaking through your systemic blueprint of patterns, you discover new freedom in your inner world

Because you want to feel in balance with yourself and the people around you.


  • You increasingly feel like you cannot give direction to your life
  • Traumatic past experiences continue to negatively affect your life.
  • Periods when you suffer from gloominess emptiness or anxiety keep recurring.
  • You might have the feeling that enjoying life to the fullest and being successful constantly eludes you.
  • Although you have cognitive insight into patterns that impede you, managing to change them is not successful enough.
  • Maybe you are at the crossroads of options and remain doubtful regarding the next step in your career or private situation.
  • In previous therapy or coaching, you did not feel not been seen or understood enough or you experienced that the methodology yielded insufficient or only cognitive results.

Our personal retreat provides lived through improvement on the four essential dimensions of your life.

And brings the mind, heart, body and soul into alignment and state of balance.


Because new times call for a new approach to coaching and therapy that does justice to your unique story and perceptions.

And also offers insights, solutions and tools for personal issues, which should match the pace and colour of today.

That is why we developed a 4D- Systemic® treatment method combined with a personal retreat that works with the blueprint of your stories, beliefs, cognitions and emotions.

For that blueprint is as specific as your fingerprint.

It is our expertise to bring about just the right, decisive and lived-through change, allowing you to break through patterns that hinder you from living authentically and freely

Because for a successful and lasting change, just a different mindset is not enough, your feelings, your environment and your convictions need to change at an equal pace with you


To say goodbye for good to your patterns that hinder you and experience balance again in Life, Work & Love, it is important to understand the origins and unique blueprint of the unique systemic origin history

Because in parallel to a physical DNA, you also have a systemic DNA. Both profiles are completely unique, there is only one person who has this particular blueprint.

Understanding the core of your unique blueprint is transformative and gives you more energy, clarity, space and inner freedom

Relaxation and breathing space are essential ingredients during a personal retreat

That's why we like to welcome you to our own Retreat Centre Arte dell'Anima This is where you will find all the Comfort, Space and Privacy to get the best results out of your personal retreat.

Biological and vegetarian meals support your stay

The comfortable guest rooms guarantee peace, space and privacy

The ambiance in the Working Areas, where the extensive Sessions take place, is both inviting and embracing.

We guarantee you sustainable results in a personal retreat, which take months for other programmes.

Your beautiful goals, stories and ambitions are the inspiration for our Retreat Centre Arte dell'Anima


MSc. Ewoud Dekker is senior Psychologist| Psychotherapist (BIG) │System Therapist |4D-System Coach®
Marian de Neef is senior:Hypnosis Regression Therapist │Voice-dialogue Coach │senior 4d-System Coach®| System Therapist

About us

Full focus, one-on-one coaching and relaxation, for a period of five inspiring days with full accommodation, helps you take a significant step forward in your individual and professional life

  • During this time, you will see and experience which pattern in your blueprint impedes you to live life to the fullest.
  • This deep understanding gives you the ability to change this pattern permanently.
  • Resulting in you being at the helm again of your life and your work.
  • And getting to know yourself better with mildness so that you start experiencing where the space and freedom are that does justice to your authenticity
  • After all, allowing yourself living and working from within your uniqueness will give you stillness and energy and, last but not least, happiness.
  • Therefore, we work holistically together towards clear goals and guide you to turn difficulties into possibilities and wider perspectives
  • By using language and images that touch your mind,heart and soul,
    you will see the solution and experience the change

Arte dell' Anima is a specialized Centre for High Level Systemic Retreats. Each VIP retreat will be designed especially for you, to fit like an Italian tailor-made suit

Burnout Retreat

Again moving ahead by briefly standing still. Say goodbye to your burnout blueprint and again experience the feeling of Space, Energy and Freedom

Personal Retreat

This retreat for creative, and venturesome people will help you live authentically and overcome old Hindering patterns

Grief & Loss Retreat

If the feeling of Grief & loss is only growing and it is difficult or impossible to move forward you might consider professional help, also after many years

Couples Retreat

Spending three days as a welcome guest of the senior experts in solving relationship problems will certainly help your relationship to move a big step forward.

Are you interested in our retreats, or do you have a personal question? We are happy to respond to them. Send a whats-app message to Arte dell' Anima. Ewoud Dekker will get back to you as soon as possible.